I was reading one blog where she was complaining about sharing with her husband. This is a newly married woman. As I read, I wanted to tell her too just wait till the kids come along.
My husband and I are lucky that we do not share many hobbies so we are not treading on each others toes by using things that belong to the other. I don't hunt or fish and he hates the computer unless he has to use it for work. My kids on the other hand are another story.
I came home for shopping today and noticed that my daughter had on a ring that looked familiar. It should. It was mine. She also has a fondness for my blouses and my skirts when she wears skirts. I cannot count the times she has gotten ready for a date and asked me if I had any clothes she could wear.
And she does not like to share the computer either when she is home. She has people to see and talk to on line. I have no one, according to her so why would I want to use it?
Yep, once the 'I do's are done' nothing is yours and once the kids come along, even less is yours.