Okay...we do have a doctor who has diagnosed the hair loss as alopecia for sure cause of the fact that I lost all my body hair too. He said that was the main clue. Guess I can deal with that. I finally know for sure that is the problem and can deal with the wigs or perhaps shaving off what little bit I have and going bald but I doubt I will do that.
I do feel a bit confused right now. I cannot hold a grudge. it is not in me. So this one woman who is mean to so many lost a loved one. I was chastised by many of my Christians friends for telling her I was sorry for what happened. They said I was wrong. This is one time I felt I was right in going against the grain and offering her my sympathy. I think that as they are Christians it would not have hurt them to forget for one moment this woman was wrong in what she did and show they can be compassionate to those who need it. I am not going to tell them they are wrong in what they are doing but I am not going to let them make me feel I was wrong either. I may write on this in my other blog.